The #1 decider of your worth? You.Not your wins, your past or any relationship.
Today, nix these 13 'external validators:' We often measure our worth via external factors—our productivity, relationships, careers—without even knowing it.
But we can find peace when our self-worth comes from within. 😌
Update your 'measuring stick.' Today, nix the 'external validators' measuring stick & measure your worth on factors *you* control.
E.g. being a compassionate friend, your ability to memorize the entire Formation dance. 💅
You're so worthy. .
Having fear does not mean you stop living. Being bold doesn’t mean you aren’t afraid.
I am afraid every time I connect with a new person that could potentially be a romantic partner. I am afraid that I’m too much. Because I am vivacious and loud and opinionated and woke. I’m a lot to handle. A part of me wants to shy away from myself. Dim myself to make me easier to digest, to handle at first. I am afraid every time that they will leave.
But here’s the truth. If they leave because they can’t handle me, they aren’t for me. And I won’t settle for a half assed love again.
I’m a laugher, an open book, a lover, I get excited and loud, I’m romantic and soft, fierce and strong willed. All of these things should never be hidden or dimmed. Never let your fears stop you from being you. #selflove#bebold#bebrave#beyourself#feminist#witchesofinstagram#effyourbeautystandards#bigandblunt